6.29.2011

Wedding Ramble

I'm tired of talking about details.  I want to walk into the church and get married.  I don't care about candles and flowers and dresses I'm not wearing.  My mom said I need to call my future MIL and find out what color she's wearing.  What the heck for?? I don't even care what color YOU'RE wearing.  As long as it's in the scheme and she's not one to try to be a scene-stealer so I know we'll be fine.  I had a bunch of other things to talk to her about so I asked and it was answered, no discussion.  Someone tell me the point of that, please?  Especially the week of the wedding.  She already has her clothes at that point so it really doesn't matter.  Wear whatever you want.  As long as you're not wearing a veil, we'll really be okay.  Yes.  She could even wear white.  Did I say I don't care?  WEAR WHATEVER YOU WANT!!  I trust your style and common sense enough to know you'll walk in there looking correct.  I can say that about 97% of my guests.  I'll be fine even if the other 3% look slightly crazy.  What else would I do? Become a bouncer?
Rashan and I will be sequestered in an undisclosed location after the wedding.  We'll probably be on the internet sporadically because that's who we are and we won't be talked out of it, but I'm not answering any phone calls from Friday at 1am (LOL) until checkout Sunday.  Best of luck in your weekend endeavors.

How the heck am I gonna be able to sleep Thursday night?

It makes no sense to me that people keep requesting pictures... on the internet.  Um... REALLY?????  Have either of us EVER held out on pictures?  Like ever.  Let's all calm down now.

No, I don't need to be talked off of a ledge or calmed down, I just need to be able to fuss somewhere.  No, none of this will matter Friday morning.  Yes, I will enjoy my day.  But right now?  I just want everybody to leave me alone.

13 comments:

Ladynay said...

Vent on lady.

Go ahead and find you some sleepytime tea or whatever you take/ritual you perform to relax because I'd imagine that your body will be sooooo pumped up and ready to go tomorrow night that proper sleeping will be difficult.

ShaBoogiesince1982 said...

I feel you... should change your voicemail to LEAVE ME ALONE! I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU'RE WEARING! lol

K. Rock said...

Let the water roll off your back. You have the right idea. Who cares!! Dont let these busters stress you out. You only have a couple of days before the happiest day of your life. If you need to sleep, take a couple of shots of tequila. It knock me out every time.

onefromphilly said...

Your day will be perfect! You know why? Because you are marrying the man that you love and who loves you! And that's all that matters. :-)

I thought that maybe I was the only person on Earth that didn't care if other people wore white to my wedding. I really care so little. It's not like people will be confused about who the bride is????

laughing808 said...

one more day to get thru then its the beginning of wedded bliss for you and Rashan..............

Congrats, yet again!

mrstdj said...

Let it all out lady! We are hear to listen/read. Very, very soon you'll be Mrs and all of this will become extra comical.

Just Me said...

I literally laughed at loud to you saying " As long as you're not wearing a veil, we'll really be okay!"

I hope that you'll get some sleep Thursday, even if you need help in the shape of a pill, lol!

Yay, Friday is almost here!!

Babs said...

So excited for you!

The Second Sixty-Eight said...

Yep. Sounds like pre-wedding frustrations!

I can only tell you to relax, enjoy yourself through all this because it will be part of the memories.

Most of all be one incredibly beautiful bride and enjoy your day.

Congrats!!!

Miss B said...

Hey you're getting married tomorrow!! LOL

Congrats again!!!

Sparkling Red said...

All the best! Tomorrow will be fantastic. It doesn't matter whether it goes off without a hitch or if there are some stories in it. You will be calm, probably the calmest person there, and it will all wonderful. That is the bride phenomenon.

spchrist said...

Don't drive the people that love you crazy...lol. Congrats on your big day!

The Goddess said...

It's only one day a way. WOW!!!! Yeah, the only thing that would be on my mind at this point is how fabulous I'D be looking walking down the isle. Lol