As you know, Rashan and I have a great relationship. We love being together and it's becoming increasingly torturous to be apart. There's just one problem.
I really want to get married and it's not that he doesn't because obviously he's an old man, but he's put all these obstacles to us getting married any time soon. He wants me to be out of school, he wants us to live together first (which I'm opposed to), and he wants us to have at least $5,000 saved toward a wedding and we haven't even started. I feel like all of these are stalling tactics.
I know what you're thinking, why would I put our business out like this on the blog? Especially since I usually eschew blog advice. Mostly because our relationship started on the blog and we've kept you guys mostly in the loop. Plus sometimes a person who's a relative stranger is the one with the best advice. I don't think it's fair to only talk about the great things and leave out the difficult things. I've blocked him from viewing my blog for the day so feel free to be completely honest. Do you think he wants to really marry me? Are these just stalling tactics? Is he being reasonable and I'm being unreasonable? What should I do?