Were we reading the same blog? This chick said she wanted a dude to be creative on the first date. She didn't say she needed relationship advice. She didn't say she had trouble finding a man. In fact, she said just the opposite. She's really busy and she doesn't have time for your lazy foolishness. And somehow it's turned into a massive debate that places all the marrieds and almost marrieds against the single women. Whatever!! When you come on someone's blog like a know-it-all, no matter your position, and rudely tell her how wrong she is and that's exactly why she's single, I'm not going to sit back and let it go down like that. I'm also not going to continue going back and forth. You made your position clear and so did I. Let's move it on along.