10.11.2006

CT Trip October Edition Pt.II

We fell asleep at 1130 that night. Again... ELDERLY! So sad. But he had to go to work the next day. We watched the aforementioned movies Thursday morning. He bought my favorite cereal, Cinnamon Toast Crunch. So sweet. I dropped him off at work, then came back and watched the Food Network (of course). The bf told me I'm gonna be the best cook in the world one day w/all the food network I watch. Then rolled his eyes. Brat. Just because I don't wanna watch ESPN ALLLLLL DAY. Don't get mad. Hater. You'll be real happy when you're filling your belly on my food goodness!!

Took a nap, then got dressed to meet Ashli and her sister at Wood and Tap. I had a bacon bleu cheese burger. It was soooo yummy. I love a good burger. Had a bad waitress again. Tipped her accordingly. So wack. When we have to say something to the hostess TWICE about your service, there's a problem.

After dinner, I went back to the bf's, watched the end of Grey's Anatomy, then fell asleep. Went to pick the bf up, went back to sleep, woke up at the crack of dawn to go catch my plane. So what was the shocking conclusion? I was being sarcastic about my mental state. The longer I'm away from him, the harder it gets to leave. Particularly because I never know when I'll see him again. Could be 3 weeks, could be 6. Its the most frustrating thing ever. I feel the need to make every moment count. Then I'm despondent for days afterward. Will this last forever??? Because that's what it feels like. I miss him. We've been together 10 months.

13 comments:

the joy said...

well mama... i know its hard but i think youre doing a good job. many people give up when faced with that sort of physical distance. no pressure, but ct is a pretty cool place to live.

Madame said...

I'm wit joy...heard CT can be poppin, although it may be kindof early to think of moving with the relationship being only 10 mos old. I'm also an advocate of women doing things for themselves, not for a man, so if u know that u could go to CT because u want to on ur own, sounds like a plan to me....

Dreamlover said...

Wow, long distance is always hard, I'm sorry!

But you seem to be doing well and it won't last forever, you are both getting yourselves established!!

Amber Ileene said...

cinnamon toast crunch is the best... and he will be quite happy with all the amaazing things youve learned to cook from the FN! Be strong as you seem to be doing anyway ... who knows you might be cookin him all those fabulous FN recipies on the regular before you know it!

CNEL said...

1) Cinammon Toast Crunch is the bidness.

2) You so made me want a hamburger, I think I'm taking myself in search of a good hamburger this weekend.

3) As you well know mentor the sacrifices you make now will make the future more sweet. I love how your committed to making every moment count. I'mma take that to heart. :-)

Marvelous said...

Long distance relationships... not a good deal babe. You'll see. But enjoy the love!

~Marv.

The Sarccastik Variable Why said...

congrats...well it sounds good....just hope it continues, don't trip FOOD NETWORK HAS SOME BOMB AZZ RECIPES...that's two things of my favorite channels....espn & food network...

X Factor said...

Short term sacrifice for long term gain. You can make it work as long as the love is there.... good luck :)

jameil1922 said...

joy... lmao. ct is ok. ITS COLD!! AND SNOWY!! BRRRRRRRR!! but believe me. our next career moves have each other in mind.

madam... the early in the relationship thing doesn't apply to us b/c we've known each other for 6 years. i wouldn't be moving to ct "just for some man." its not like i'll be moving there w/o a job or doing something i hate "just" to be with him. we are in a very loving, secure relationship. all that don't do it for a man stuff goes out of the window when the security is there.

dream... i know but it seems that way! like my whole life!

amber... yum cinnamon toast crunch! thanks for the support :D

cnel.. yeah if we have to live like this, we better make it count.

marv... don't be pessimistic.

sarcasstik... LOVE food network. i just need him to learn how to cook! lmao! he heats things up and tells me what he cooked today. so hilarious.

x... there it is. that's how i keep myself going.

Stacie von Kutieboots said...

LOL now the BF knows he will be tearing EVERYTHING you make so why is he rolling his eyes? LOLOL

Yooooooooooo, that bacon bleu sounds good as hell! I'm mad the service wasn't. JAMEIL! What is it with you and bad service!??!?!?!

10 months! Awwww! I was going to ask how long its been! So presh!

Yuna's Life, Thoughts, Bitching, and Laughs said...

if you really want it, you can make the long distance thing work, you have to be positive, and i know about leaving your loved one, it sucks being away from them....it gets hard when you are used to someone being around all the time, hang in there.

jameil1922 said...

stace... that's what i'm sayin! he'll be like mmmm! baby this is so good! and i'll say yeah i know. maybe i just have a bad service sign on my forehead? i don't know. yeah... 10months.

yuma... i know. it gets hard tho. we've never lived in the same city as a couple, only as friends at hampton. i miss that. we used to have such good times together. watching college basketball, yelling at the tv, dancing when the other person's team failed, it was hilarious.

So...Wise...Sista said...

I'm back b!tches..at 2 in the morning no less. Why? bec I LOVE CT TRIP RECAPS! I hate that you guys are so far apart. Clearly Im projecting, but I even more love that you guys always "fall asleep at 11:30." :)