tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post439214782899008563..comments2023-09-19T04:46:06.943-04:00Comments on Live(ish) with Jameil: Taking Up Space (In My Head)Jameilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-60137967318935703762007-09-13T11:39:00.000-04:002007-09-13T11:39:00.000-04:00sp... thanks. gangsta is one word for it. when i...sp... thanks. gangsta is one word for it. when it comes to stuff like that, i try to shy away from drama. you can't erase memories. my job reminds me of him and sports and espn so it will take more than getting rid of a few material things.<BR/><BR/>cnel... don't beat yourself up for how you feel. hugs.Jameilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-87845337989108483172007-09-12T22:33:00.000-04:002007-09-12T22:33:00.000-04:00J:I wished I would have read this before I started...J:<BR/>I wished I would have read this before I started beating myself up about thinking about my ex. Seldom does time pass when I don't think about her. I think I sometimes care because I cared so much for her. Thanks for this. I admire you for your ability to keep things in perspective, and to see things in a balanced way.<BR/><BR/>Keep doing you. You're absolutely right. It has to be about you now and forever.CNELhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11799996232496751989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-82306338359907981802007-09-12T13:10:00.000-04:002007-09-12T13:10:00.000-04:00Jameil...I'M SO FEELING you on this post...and it ...Jameil...I'M SO FEELING you on this post...and it is probably your best post ever...imo.<BR/><BR/>See...I probably a bit more gangsta than you are...so I toasted my ex properly on the blog one time and left it at that. I can't give anyone the satisfaction that I'm thinking about them or was thinking about them. <BR/><BR/>I know she got the message do to the angry phone calls, e-mails and texts from her and her friends. It helps to remove anything that reminds you of your ex from your life...like clothing, e-mails, etc. It helps you heal faster.Sherlon Christiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15935091177837101001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-45630308045372432007-09-11T10:59:00.000-04:002007-09-11T10:59:00.000-04:00porscha... and since we were homies for six years ...porscha... and since we were homies for six years including the relationship, i really have a ridiculous amount of stories involving him. um... i hope its not too suddenly that some man is clutching my hand. if you can talk about your healing, i damn sure better be able to talk about mine... i know we all heal in different ways.<BR/><BR/>sha... i do want to be single a while longer, tho. HOLD DOWN THAT FORT!!<BR/><BR/>black guy... chile please! you can't kill this spirit!!<BR/><BR/>nitty... AMEN! :) there will be no rushing. <BR/><BR/>v... me, too. post on that forthcoming.<BR/><BR/>m... what's strangest is that i KNOW something great is coming (non-relationship-related) because i can feel it. its so strange.<BR/><BR/>cali.. i knew it was you b/c you said j, and the ellipses. you know i'm not giving up.<BR/><BR/>joy.. thanks for the nickname. don't think you have to use his name now homie. i have NEVER thought i was incomplete w/o a man. that's not my steez. i know you know that.<BR/><BR/>epsi... doin me all day every day! :)<BR/><BR/>stace... lol. love you!<BR/><BR/>bk... yeah but any stalkers can feel free to back up b/c now ain't the time.Jameilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-79826182280096790232007-09-11T08:58:00.000-04:002007-09-11T08:58:00.000-04:00:) we are >>>and you right.. Fly people don't stay...:) we are >>><<< its all good.. <BR/><BR/>and you right.. Fly people don't stay single for long!!!BKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717043142027866614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-78591346608653164172007-09-11T07:10:00.000-04:002007-09-11T07:10:00.000-04:00you know what makes Rev bomb? the fact tht he PUT ...you know what makes Rev bomb? the fact tht he PUT those 4 together!! I love it! It all makes sense together (and apart but anyway).<BR/><BR/>You are BLACK WOMAN, and I can hear you roar! Get it JameilAdei von Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03660249144472518152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-57926095163110176082007-09-11T04:02:00.000-04:002007-09-11T04:02:00.000-04:00I feel you. I stopped blogging about "her" for a w...I feel you. I stopped blogging about "her" for a while because that ish was hurting. So I really feel where you at. Do you!!<BR/><BR/>That quartet of quotes was interesting. Emerson and Diddy?? Never in the history of... lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-59610888105437063322007-09-11T01:57:00.000-04:002007-09-11T01:57:00.000-04:00lmao but i was feelin diddy's quote! youre doing a...lmao but i was feelin diddy's quote! youre doing a great job dealing and moving on. to be honest, one of my friend's on my blog's name is kyle, and i was gonna use his name but i gave him a nickname to not have you link thoughts or have flashbacks or something. when i broke up with my ex the first time i threw myself at some guy to avoid the questions people would ask. i wanted to seem strong, but you are actually being strong here... i read my friend's facebook and it said something like "who am i that i cant be complete without a man, what can he give that i dont already have? gems are sought, not seeking." i was like damn, go head girl! remember that.the joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05802618412868607142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-42450072115495139042007-09-10T23:18:00.000-04:002007-09-10T23:18:00.000-04:00and the key is mos def not giving up ... i had thi...and the key is mos def not giving up ... i had this same prob when i went thru everything with j ... everyone seemed to have an opinion ... but then i realized i was writin for me ... and that folks could take it or leave it ... cause love is what its all about ... and there will always be a part of me that hurts for past loves and loss... but the fact still remains that ive always emerged victorious ... bc i refuse to give up ...i know the good stuff is out there somewhere and imma find it ... (oh its amber by the way)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-61221991136213372372007-09-10T23:02:00.000-04:002007-09-10T23:02:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-61953884865926442072007-09-10T20:23:00.000-04:002007-09-10T20:23:00.000-04:00LMAO at preserving his sexy reasoning. That quarte...LMAO at preserving his sexy reasoning. That quartet is the hotness. and i'm so loving your mentality.. you're right girl, the fly don't stay single for long at all!! <BR/><BR/>I wish you all the best with you healing you and your growth through God.<BR/><BR/>There's a better chapter of your life you are getting ready for. People ain't ready for it!Nikita T. Mitchellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09574482382450855185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-70932733022493866642007-09-10T20:04:00.000-04:002007-09-10T20:04:00.000-04:00I feel ya girlie. You gotta take it upstairs. I'v...I feel ya girlie. You gotta take it upstairs. I've been searching for a church home and I think I've found one.<BR/><BR/>Regardless of how lonely it can fell, sometimes, you need that one on one with the lady upstairs.<BR/><BR/>(Yeah I think God is a woman)Southerner in Suomihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07430564280434466462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-30176180012687329632007-09-10T15:13:00.001-04:002007-09-10T15:13:00.001-04:00Take it to the father and he shall set you freee- ...Take it to the father and he shall set you freee- CAN I GET AN AMEN! Just know that while your taking care of "self" that you don't rush into anything, because even Fly people can be single and treat your brain like an apartment and don't let others rent space in your head. Continue in your faith and your purpose and meaning to life will soon blossom before you know it.My-Consciencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10051227249727435460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-17572725506999381322007-09-10T15:13:00.000-04:002007-09-10T15:13:00.000-04:00thanks for sharing that with us. at least you've k...thanks for sharing that with us. at least you've kept your spirit and liveliness intact!yet another black guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04791087585412457689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-47044841190404026182007-09-10T14:07:00.000-04:002007-09-10T14:07:00.000-04:00I am so diggin that commment 'fly people don't sta...I am so diggin that commment 'fly people don't stay single for long' YES!!!<BR/>Preach Preacher!! I am trying to hold down the fort, but they're closing in on me!..lolSha Boogiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16301564784639010783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17235386.post-64473986100847037212007-09-10T13:56:00.000-04:002007-09-10T13:56:00.000-04:00I totally understand how this feels, Jameil. I had...I totally understand how this feels, Jameil. I had to officially ban <I>myself</I> from telling ex-boyfriend stories because it was getting to be too much. When you're with someone for a while, it seems like all your recent memories and experiences involve that person in some way. And you're right about the limited single time. The Bible says this is a time to "attend upon the Lord without distraction" (1 Cor. 7:35) but that time fades quickly and all of a sudden you're walking down the street and holding some lucky man's hand. Good on you for discussing your healing from this tough breakup.Porschahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00692745637312184573noreply@blogger.com